Category: General

  • The Choice, or An exercise in digressions and lazy editing.

    I’m stopped at a red light on Olympic Boulevard, one of several major arterials that criss-cross this city. It was renamed for the 1932 Los Angeles Olympic Games and stretches 25 miles east-west from Montebello to Santa Monica. For me, Olympic will always be associated with LA’s Koreatown, and thus, have some kind of East Asian resonance about it, which makes almost no sense at all. Still, if I had to pick a focal point for Koreatown, it would be somewhere in the vicinity of Olympic Boulevard and Western Avenue. Korean restaurants, banks, supermarkets, shopping plazas, auto repair shops, hair salons, churches, and auto dealers spread to the north and east from this intersection, which has been the semi-permanent location of a large mural ad for Korean Air. Just north of this intersection sits the Wiltern, one of LA’s great Art Deco treasures, recently purchased by LG, a South Korean conglomerate that is likely to be best known for its electronics, particularly mobile phones.

    Olympic Boulevard is my preferred route. The particular stretch of Olympic Boulevard that I travel skews toward residential and office developments, making it a great way to avoid the stop-and-go, turn into the parking lot, stop off for a Starbucks or McSandwich traffic that predominates on most of the other corridors. It also violates most of my urban planning sensibilities, but most of us learn to live as hypocrites to avoid killing ourselves. I have, however, stopped buying uber-Republican Michael Dell’s computer products. You have to judge hypocrisy by degrees.

    There’s a Civic in the center painted quad-yellow median who would like to make a left-turn into a driveway for a small office complex. This is a perfectly legal maneuver, though, in this particular circumstance, a questionable one, since the volume of traffic makes it unlikely that an opportunity for a safe left turn will present itself in a reasonable amount of time. Driving, or route-planning, is often far more complex than simply finding the solution of Point A to Point B. At the very least, different routes need to be evaluated based on the legal top-speed allowed on those routes. Going from 4th (St.) and Olympic in Santa Monica to 4th (Ave.) and Olympic in Montebello would be faster if taking Interstate 10. Interstates and highways are referred to as freeways here in Southern California, though the term doesn’t really include those surface streets that also double as highways. The freeways are often given names based on their destination, loosely relative to downtown LA. Thus, the 101 is the Hollywood Freeway from downtown to Hollywood, but becomes the Ventura Freeway from Universal City to Ventura. Stranger still, the east-bound Ventura Freeway doesn’t end in Universal City. It switches from the 101 to the 134 to head into downtown Burbank, Glendale, and Pasadena. The 110 is the Pasadena Freeway north of downtown, and the Harbor Freeway south of downtown. I-10 is the Santa Monica Freeway west of downtown and the San Bernardino Freeway east of downtown, though I like to think of that stretch as the Joe Speaker freeway, since he lives out that way. The Century Freeway is LA’s newest freeway and breaks tradition by taking its name from Century Boulevard, which it parallels from Norwalk to LAX. It never ends up in Century City, which is actually just a part of Los Angeles that used to be the massive 20th Century Fox studio lot.

    So now I am faced with the choice that faces many drivers. I have the opportunity to “be a nice guy” and let the Civic attempt his left turn in front of my stopped car, or “be the asshole” and pull forward by 6 feet and block him from getting in my way. It may be that I’m becoming old before my time, but I’d be willing to risk good money on the notion that driving in LA has become more aggressive over the past ten years. It’s probably a combination of factors, including a healthy economy, the proliferation of cars with more powerful engines and the illusion of safety, and the natural tendency to learn behaviors from others. The end result is that the words “courtesy” and “yield” have been dropped from the LA driving lexicon, replaced by vulgarities unsuited for some of our readers at home. It seems to me that being courteous and allowing grace for minor infractions of the law, written or otherwise, would make for a better driving experience for all concerned. At the very least, the individual driver who leaves the ego at home and doesn’t allow the chaos around him to affect his mood is less likely to get himself into trouble for revenge or cock-blockery.

    I let the Civic through. At the same time, an early 90’s American sedan cruised along in the right-turn lane. For him, a green right arrow signals his right of way. Few drivers expect a car to appear out of nowhere, especially from the midst of two solid lanes of cars stopped at a red light. Yet, the unexpected happens every day to someone on these streets. Maybe several someones.

    As I drove away I wondered if I should have prevented the accident by thwarting the Civic driver’s desire to do something stupid. But doing so would have made me look like an asshole, and at the end of the day, if the price of a complete stranger’s untarnished opinion of me only amounts to thousands of dollars in car repairs and a little hospitalization, it is well worth it.

  • SaveChristine.com

    Back in February I wrote about my friend Jake’s girlfriend Christine. A lot of bloggers and readers helped out by signing up on the registry, donating money, spreading the word, and sending well wishes to Jake and Christine. We were very surprised at and grateful for the response. It’s really remarkable how much people are willing to help complete strangers.

    It’s been a while since that post, and I owe it to everyone to let people know how thing’s are coming along. Unfortunately, things haven’t really gotten better. Here’s the latest news from Christine, posted to her site forum yesterday:

    Well, I got my scan results this afternoon and they were not good. There’s no other way to put this. The cancer is progressing. My doctors even wanted to admit me to the hospital today but the soonest they could schedule me for surgery (to implant a hickman catheter) is next Wednesday. I will be admitted and administered chemotherapy 24 hours a day for several days on a different and very potent anti-cancer cocktail twice over the next few weeks. They want to give me a marrow transplant as soon as possible. But we don’t have a perfect match. The closest we have found is only a partial match with high-risks/low-survival potential… and we’re not even sure if this partial match is willing to donate. Unless a miracle happens and my perfect match signs up on the national marrow registry in the next two to four weeks, my doctors say that all I have left is hope.

    Continue reading Scan results.

    For more information on Christine, including the latest news and upcoming events, check out SaveChristine.com. If you are of Filipino descent and are considering a marrow donation, please go to www.marrow.com or call 1(800) MARROW2 to find the closest location to take the test and register for the national bone marrow registry. Even if you are not a match for Christine, you might be able to help someone else. There’s really no commitment at any step of the process, so if at some point you change your mind and decide to withdraw, that’s perfectly fine.

    Thanks for reading.

  • Seeking potential bone marrow donors (Filipino, 18-61)

    My friend Jake’s girlfriend is very sick and needs help. Please read:

    Dear Friends,

    This isn’t a happy email.

    We got the results of Christine’s biopsy over the holidays. It turns out that her cancer is back. It’s a rare and extremely aggressive form of non-Hodgkins lymphoma. The survival rates are not good. The fact that it’s the same cancer is the worst possible news, because it means that it did not respond to treatment.

    Medically, the only option Christine has left is a Bone Marrow Transplant. The survival rate of this procedure is 30-40%. Of those who do survive the procedure itself, only 50% survive the next two years. However, if she does survive those two years, it means the cancer won’t come back.

    This is a pretty terrible option. However, the non medical option is also horrible. Her doctor says that if she chooses not to have the Bone Marrow Transplant, she’ll be dead within a year.

    I’m sorry to dump such upsetting news on everyone, but I need your help.

    I need to find her a bone marrow donor.

    This is hard enough for the average person. There are over 20,000 types of bone marrow, so the average person has a 1 in 20,000 chance of finding a match. These numbers are even worse for Christine. Because she is Filipino, she needs to find a donor of the same ethnic background, and there are hardly any Filipinos on the National Registry.

    Because we caught the cancer early, right now is our best chance of having the Bone Marrow Transplant work. Every day we lose her chances of surviving drop.

    So please, contact your friends, and ask them to contact their friends. Anyone you know who is Filipino and between the ages of 18 and 61 is a potential donor. The system is nationwide, so it doesn’t matter where they live. Signing up on the registry is easy and painless. All it requires is a simple blood test. Some hospitals charge a small fee for this blood test, however if your friends contact me directly, I can put them in touch with one of the hundreds of local organizations that will do the blood test for free. They can use this email address:

    jacobkrueger@gmail.com

    You can reassure your friends that signing up for the registry does not require donating any bone marrow. If it turns out they are a match, they will be contacted, and can make the decision at that point about becoming a donor.

    There are lots of misconceptions about donating bone marrow. (I know I was terrified of doing it before I learned how minor the procedure actually is.) The procedure is simple and safe. You will be anesthetized the whole time, so you will not feel anything. When the procedure is over, you may have some soreness in the area for a few days and you may feel a little tired. That’s it. The bone marrow you donate is replenished within 3-4 weeks. And again, you will only undergo this procedure if your blood sample shows that you are a match and you decide to donate, in which case the slight soreness you’ll be feeling will be saving someone’s life.

    All medical expenses for the donor will be covered by Christine’s insurance. And as I mentioned before, if they contact me directly, I can put them in touch with an organization near them that will put them on the National Registry for free and also make sure they are listed as a Sponsor for Christine. Here’s my email address again:

    jacobkrueger@gmail.com

    You can find out more about the registry and the donation procedure at this website:

    www.marrow.com

    In the next few days, we’ll be setting up a Myspace account to keep you updated on Christine’s progress. Let me know if you’d like to be included and I’ll add you to the list.

    We are exploring alternative methods of treatment as well. So if you know of anyone who’s had success treating cancer with any methods, please let me know so I can pass the information on to Christine.

    Finally, a request from Christine. If it fits with your beliefs, she’d like you to say a prayer for her tonight.

    Thanks so much for your help,

    Jake

    PS. Regardless of your ethnic background, if you’re interested in donating please feel free to contact me and I will put you in touch with an organization that can help put you on the registry.

    I also received an email forwarded from Sean Kent today. Apparently Christine “needs a bone marrow transplant within the next 2 months to survive.” There is a health fair this Sunday in the SF Valley where you can take a free test. From Sean: “Christine’s hospital – City of Hope – has agreed to rush getting the results for anyone who is tested at this event!!!!!! This is a great opportunity to save our friend’s life!!!”

    Details:
    Our Lady Of Peace Parish
    15444 Nordhoff St
    North Hills, CA 91343

    Thanks for reading.

  • Curbed Los Angeles

    Curbed.LA is written by some urban planners I know. Check it out if you’re interested in urban planning, real estate, or architecture.